Romantic relationships, candle-lit dinners and beds sprinkled with rose petals – enchanting as it may seem, reality still bites! It isn’t forever that your honeymoon stage lasts. You should be applauded for even thinking that it would, however, the bitterness of life sets in the moment you realize that a happily-ever-after isn’t as simple as it is in the movies.
The stress of juggling a career, needing children, a must-maintained household, a wanting husband and an ever enticing sex life as well as a rewarding social life can demand more than what a woman can give. This could result to a need to focus on the priorities. Majority of priorities include career and children.
Satisfying the needs to have intimate bed scenes usually come last. Because of this, many husbands find the urge to find someone ´different´; not someone better than the wife, just someone different who can suffice his needs for intimacy.
Usually to single women, a decrease in libido is a minor issue. However to some women who are married and committed to their partners, it can be a reason to jeopardize even the longest-standing relationship.
Is there something that you can do?
Absolutely. There is a wide array of treatments and enhancers which can help you increase your female sensuality. Bring back the passion and fire in your relationship. What is important is that you do not fear to make changes.
Here are some simple tips on catching the elusive female libido.
Do not be afraid to say what you think. If it´s boring – say it! If your sex life is too monotonous – tell him! The very first part of change is identification and acceptance of a problem. The moment that you and your partner realize that there is something wrong with your intimate sessions, the better and easier you will find solutions. Just remember to take it easy and to say things in a positive way. The moment you start communicating what to do bed, you get to turn the little switch on again. For women, communication is a sexy foreplay.
Not the type of wild antics that can hurt - it´s taking it on another safe level. This means, it´s about time to be adventurous. Keep your sex life exciting by trying on positions other than the missionary. If not, you might want to just hook up in the kitchen while the kids are sleeping or doing it in the front seat of your car just like teens. The excitement and thrill of not being caught makes it even more alluring.
If you want your partner that much, show him or her. Do not wait for either of you to take the lead; otherwise, you will both end up frustrated and hoping. Be brave and confident enough to be the bolder one.